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I Love My Hair

Affirmation, Muppet Style

Earlier this month, Sesame Street took on the issue of young black girls’ self acceptance by producing and airing “I Love My Hair,” a music video where a Muppet representing an African American girl, sings about loving her hair as it is.

The idea for the Sesame Street production was prompted by the five-year old daughter of  the show’s head writer, Joey Mazzarino.   Mazzarino said that as his daughter began to watch TV and play with Barbies, she also began to complain to her parents that she didn’t have “good hair,” by which she meant straight and blonde. 

As many sociologists and historians know, the idea of “good hair” is deeply ingrained in America, and is rooted – no pun intended – in historic, racially-based concepts of beauty.

Realizing that the idea of “good hair” vs. “bad hair” was a tipping point for his daughter’s self-image and that of many little black girls, Mazzarino set out to create something to boost her self-acceptance.   The resulting 2-minute video has become a viral YouTube sensation, with more than a quarter of million views to date.

Having been a little African American girl myself, I can remember my feelings of envy when I saw white girls tossing their long, straight hair.  I wanted to be able to toss my hair, to run my fingers through it easily, and most of all, for it to be much longer than it was.  These were the days before wearing one's hair natural in an afro style was socially acceptable.  Like many of her peers, my mother plaited my hair into thick braids each morning.  On special occasions, she took out the hot comb to straighten some hair in the front to form curly bangs.  My hair was long, but not straight like good hair.

ABC News reported yesterday that the You Tube video has generated hundreds of positive internet comments from women of varying ethnicities and races. Almost all wished that there was a song and video like this when they were children, remarking how liberating it would have been.

As we continue to move forward with our mission of eliminating racism and empowering women, YWCA Boston applauds Sesame Street for its effort to empower little girls and let them know that they are wonderful just the way they are.

Sylvia Ferrell-Jones is President & CEO of America's first YWCA. She would like to declare that now she, too, really, really loves her hair.

I Love My Hair

Comments

Sylvia: Woo hoo! Awesome video ... And, by the way, I LOVE YOUR HAIR TOO (along with everything under it)!!!! Your fan,
Posted @ Wednesday, October 20, 2010 9:34 AM by Nancy Taylor
This is WONDERFUL! Anything we can do to enhance the self esteem of our children and let them know they are perfect just the way they are, is fabulous! What a wonderful dad he must be - to have such insight into his daughter's emotions....good for him! She's a lucky girl.
Posted @ Wednesday, October 20, 2010 10:03 AM by Cathy Congo
You have eloguently stated what (I dare to say) every black woman has felt. I remember a "sistuh" telling me I had "lost my power" when I cut my long permed hair to go au naturel. I've worn a short natural for 15 years and can't believe the sense of freedom I still feel when I hear my friends fretting about their hair.
Posted @ Wednesday, October 20, 2010 1:08 PM by Paula Penebaker
I loved this video and truly appreciate your sentiments Sylvia. I think we all, as African American women, can relate to this issue. I thank you and Seasme Street for taking it on in such a honest and positive way that is impactful to our youth. I hope that one day we all can come to terms with and embrace our self-image. Most importantly, for all of us and our children to understand what defines true beauty and how our diverse looks make us so very special. After losing my Mother to cancer and watching her beautiful hair fall out -- I certainly can embrace any texture of hair or no hair at all!!
Posted @ Saturday, October 23, 2010 8:51 AM by Melba Dance
My thanks to you for your comments, and to Sesame Street for this uplifting and much-needed message. Since the day my African-American daughter was born, I have been vigilant about the ways that racism would impact her life. I was heartbroken the first time it showed itself in a blatant way. She was not three yet, was looking in the mirror, and announced, "I wish my hair was straight." I called for my husband to join us, and the three of us sat together in front of the mirror and talked about how beautiful she is, that she (like every human) is wonderfully unique, and that we wouldn't change a single thing about her or her hair. While we celebrated the arrival of the first dark-skinned Disney heroine last year, even Princess Tiana appears to have long straight(ened?) hair. I hope we will eradicate this particular form of racism in my lifetime, and that my daughter will someday tell me, "Mama, I love my hair."
Posted @ Saturday, October 23, 2010 2:28 PM by Anonymous Mom
Loved the video as well. When I was young, I had very curly ( read frizzy ) hair and was teased unmercifully about it. This would have helped me feel better about myself. Now I’m an old lady with white hair. It was a sign of aging and didn’t make me feel very good until I started getting complements on how beautiful it was – even from people I didn’t know. I guess we are never too old to be reminded that “good” or concepts of beauty are broad, interesting and colorful(or colorless in my case).
Posted @ Saturday, October 23, 2010 2:30 PM by Becca Fain
really liked this article! It got me thinking about when I was younger and wanted straight hair – especially when I was usually the only black person at camp, on sports teams, etc. I was also thinking about the time when I worked at Crabtree and the visiting district manager made a comment about my hair (it was just washed and let out, so it had more of a “poofy” look). Definitely a racist comment and I wish I had had a stronger reaction. 
Posted @ Saturday, October 23, 2010 2:44 PM by Lauren Jones
Isn’t it weird (and sad) about our hair as a symbol of our normal-ness, acceptability and beauty? When I was younger I was teased about being a “carrot-top” and felt ugly and different. Then in junior high there actually was a group of “popular” girls we all called the “Riverside Blondes” (they lived in the Riverside section of town) – who were really human Barbies before there was Barbie – and, although we denigrated them among ourselves, we all privately wished we could be them. Now Solaya who truly IS beautiful, deeply wishes she had blonde hair too. It just kills me that even though so much has changed, so much has not. 
 
Posted @ Saturday, October 23, 2010 2:47 PM by Tisha Frank
Here's a question for you. I love your hair and Leslie's too. Years ago in Div. School, I took a class on ethics taught by the well-known Katie Cannon. There was a lot of heated discussion on the ethics of race relations. One day, a fellow student (white) took her appreciation for African American hair to the level of imitation. She came to class with cornrows. An African American student took issue with her appropriation of that style in a very direct and angry confrontation.  
 
 
 
What if this video results in a lot of little white girls want hair like that? Is appropriation still an issue? Or have things changed a lot in 20 years. African Americans have certainly been trend setters in youth fashion so maybe that's no longer a flash-point. 
 
Posted @ Saturday, October 23, 2010 3:52 PM by Reverend Judy Brain
Funny that you should send this. I just finished watching Chris Rock's  
documentary entitled "Good Hair". It talks about the exploitation of East  
Asian women in the hair trade, also how the Black hair care business is a 6  
billion dollar industry, owned 99% by the Chinese and Korean people! Go  
figure. 
Posted @ Saturday, October 23, 2010 3:54 PM by Leslie Brain
Oh my!Great video. My mom had a head full of” Kink” and was made fun of as a kid, called sponge head (not sponge bob). To this day, I always wondered what it would be like to have hair that would graciously swish from side to side as I move. Even in my ripe old age, I still do not understand how anyone gets their hair perfectly flat and shiny. Speaking of ”in the age of Barbie,” what about those feet? Always on her toes ready to slip those feet into stiletto heels. Wonder if after all these years she has problems with her knees? So here’s to our diversity and celebration of all that makes us unique! 
Posted @ Monday, October 25, 2010 10:22 AM by Robin Stricoff
Beautifully said, Sylvia! Thank you. LOVE the Sesame Street video!
Posted @ Monday, October 25, 2010 12:30 PM by Karen Gager
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